So I've manually added all my games into howlongtobeat.com by keeping a tab for raptr open in my browser. Phew! A bit of a painful process (time consuming) but it's done now. I'm using howlongtobeat for keeping track of my games library and I like how the site helps you organise your games according to completion status and tells you how long each game takes to finish. I'm hoping this will help manage my backlog as I can sort by shortest completion and tackle those first. It even allows you to manually add a game that isn't in the database (I've used this to add upcoming games to my Wishlist as the site doesn't always have upcoming games) and there's also a heap of old games and consoles you can add!
From a purely games library management perspective I actually think this is a much better option than Raptr, mainly because of the time to complete information and ability to add games to a custom tab (which I'm using as a wish list).
For trophy tracking I'm using truetrophies and trueacheivements and have linked them together. For some reason truetrophies didn't seem to update until I upgraded to pro. After upgrading to pro, Truetrophies seems to be as reliable as Psnprofiles in it's ability to get trophy information from Sony but I haven't compared any other features at this stage.
So I haven't found an all-in-one solution but truetrophies and trueachievements I can essentially forget about, without needing a desktop app, leaving howlongtobeat as my new go-to site.
Hmm... I don't have twitter setup with exophase so is not an issue for me.
By social, I meant comparing trophies and game time with friends, and the statistic comparison like the yearly summary on raptr. As howlongtobeat really only does completion times, google doc is just easier and faster for me. I can always check the average completion time on the site but I don't really need to track my entire library in there.
gamedeed.com it's good enough for me. I use Raptr just to keep track of game time for PC and console.